SadGirl💔💔💔

 Love sucks and you know why because it hurts and it burns and it scars!! When I hear Kevin Gates sing about beautiful scars I don't seem to find the beauty of such scars. Not when a MF mentally and physically abuse a good women. If she leaves you and for some reason or another comes back and you accept and truly forgive her, that in no means gives any man the right to destroy her for his own pride, ego and revenge. If you truly forgive her and love her you don't try to humiliates her or pay her back with the same or worse mistakes she came back to repent for. If you hate her for hurting you let her go and truly ask yourself is it all her fault she decided to do it in the first place. Recognize that she is human and is weak to temptation, as you at times have been, and if she has been able to forgive you for your own faults against her and your relationship why cant you? She's already sad that she hurt you and possibly her family and kids. Maybe she came back for that very reason and your only kicking her further down then she already is. Don't take her back if you don't want to work and repair what has been broken. Instead you break her down more and make her even weaker then before. A women becomes even more vulnerable and insecure when mentally beat down every day and that can cause bigger problems of trust and respect. Depression and Anxiety develop and that's when the whole family starts to feel it. Now she becomes even sadder that her kids are being affected by the whole situation all her feelings become stronger and so does her fear. She starts doing irrational things losing herself and her mind. Don't take her back to destroy her, help her heal, help her love herself again so she can in return love you the way you deserve. Then you can both heal and be stronger together or apart. Don't scar her any further, Don't make her go through life with a heavy heart and sad eyes!!