SadGirl💔💔💔

 Love sucks and you know why because it hurts and it burns and it scars!! When I hear Kevin Gates sing about beautiful scars I don't seem to find the beauty of such scars. Not when a MF mentally and physically abuse a good women. If she leaves you and for some reason or another comes back and you accept and truly forgive her, that in no means gives any man the right to destroy her for his own pride, ego and revenge. If you truly forgive her and love her you don't try to humiliates her or pay her back with the same or worse mistakes she came back to repent for. If you hate her for hurting you let her go and truly ask yourself is it all her fault she decided to do it in the first place. Recognize that she is human and is weak to temptation, as you at times have been, and if she has been able to forgive you for your own faults against her and your relationship why cant you? She's already sad that she hurt you and possibly her family and kids. Maybe she came back for that very reason and your only kicking her further down then she already is. Don't take her back if you don't want to work and repair what has been broken. Instead you break her down more and make her even weaker then before. A women becomes even more vulnerable and insecure when mentally beat down every day and that can cause bigger problems of trust and respect. Depression and Anxiety develop and that's when the whole family starts to feel it. Now she becomes even sadder that her kids are being affected by the whole situation all her feelings become stronger and so does her fear. She starts doing irrational things losing herself and her mind. Don't take her back to destroy her, help her heal, help her love herself again so she can in return love you the way you deserve. Then you can both heal and be stronger together or apart. Don't scar her any further, Don't make her go through life with a heavy heart and sad eyes!! 

The Measure of Love

Does one measure love by how much time a couple has been together? Or do you measure it by how strong It develops with little or less time? Which is greater? I think a couple can be together for a very long time and have the same or no feeling’s at all for each other. Then there’s couples that are together for less time but their love is stronger than anything in the world. A love like that Ahhh... I would give anything to have that!!! I don’t think I’ve ever had that! How could I? I wouldn’t be here ten years later drowning in my own shallow ditch I dug myself into LoL, all jokes aside I know I am in love but I want that fairytale love that all the girls on social media seem to have! That’s not true lol it’s a mess on the internet now and days. It’s like love doesn’t exist anymore well not the fairytale kind anyway. Everything seems to be a lie, you can’t trust nobody in this world anymore, what seems to be your happiness is your demise. Like when people say I can’t say I am happy because then something bad happens! It’s true I mean you can’t be happy because someone seems to always bring you down. You can’t give the good news your pregnant because your afraid to lose a baby! What kind of world do we live in that we can celebrate,feel-trust or love because we fear of people taking it, snatching it or tainting it! So I think the stronger the love the better. Time together don’t measure anymore,I’ve seen couples together for more than a decade and a pretty face, big booty, boss with money ECT will destroy all that easy! There’s less loyalty in this world now, love has to be strong, Forgiving, understanding and patient. Not strong like crazy strong like the kind people go insane for! Now and days people do unspeakable things in the name of love or their perception of love. That’s the insane kind of love when they truly suffer for a person and go literally insane over it And do the unforgivable insane things you hear in the news now and days. And that is why my blog is “Love Sucks” No matter how you spin it or justify it Love truly sucks!

Love sucks 🖕💔

Who else thinks love sucks this day in age? The new generation of love makes me sick 😷 lol. I mean seriously sidechicks, hookups, cheaters, swingers, I could go on and on , but who are we kidding!? Stuff like this has been happening for ages it’s just a different time and a different era. Is it getting worse? Maybe, and is it getting more ordinary? Unfortunately yes. No romance, no respect, no return phone calls it’s wham bam thank you mam. It’s sad how people have lowered their standards for a little company. Or because they were drunk, lonely, drugged, on a rebound I mean I can go on and on. No respect for yourself and no self love! If you feel sad and lonely love yourself! Who better to love you than yourself? Nobody can love you better that’s a fact. How can one heal when you allow someone to love you less than you would love yourself? You don’t need to have negative attention or sucky love. I say sucky because it sucks the energy right out of you. The crying, the feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when your heart is breaking 💔 it’s agony. Why put ourselves through that? we crave that emotion even if it harms us so 😌 well I guess we will never learn but to keep loving no matter what. God has given us that gift of love and we must feel it and use it or die inside. Some people are dead inside and feel no love and that’s why we are burdened with the pain people cause us or we cause them. We are not happy within ourselves we must hurt the ones we love. In doing that we hurt ourselves because we carry that guilt. It’s a cycle that keeps going on and on different for different ages. How can we stop this cycle from plaguing us over and over? Self love, self confidence And that you can love another the way you love yourself within. I hope that I can one day find that love within myself so that I can too love and stop hurting the ones I love and hurting myself. May each and everyone of y’all find that love and happiness bestowed upon you ❤️